Sharing Ourselves

(Originally published 24 July 2011)

I was moved by a blog that one of my teammates wrote about some major life changes and how that has impacted her progress and her program. She talked about the main issue she's struggling with right now, and was very clear that while she had gained a little weight back, she was determined not to give up, and was looking for some support.

By the time I read it and added my comments, there were some excellent ideas, and an outpouring of encouragement and acknowledgement of her victories. One Spark Friend spoke about what a gift we had been given, and it is so true.

One of the beauties and miracles of this site is that we have an opportunity to speak our truth, toot our horn when we have cause to celebrate, ask for help when we are struggling. When we do that, it is easier to stay on track, and our slips are less devastating.

And doesn't it feel good to be able to offer suggestions and lend support? We are often more compassionate with friends than with ourselves. But don't you often start out trying to help a teammate solve a problem, and realize your advice is appropriate for you as well? We come up with so many more creative approaches and wise perspectives when we brainstorm together than by relying on our individual brains or experiences.

I'm just appreciating the process and all my beautiful Spark buddies!

Blessed Be, Amanda


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