Pep talk to self/selves

(Originally published 27 September 2016) 

This was my status update last night: Rats! I had this vision of rearranging some things in the living room to have what I use most often easy to get to--but now it's less accessible due to clutter that got relocated. Discouraging!

I've done a lot of parts work over the years, and in my daily journaling, I have a number of pretty distinctive inner parts/voices/selves who sometimes lead different sections of our journaling sessions. One sort of junior, helping part really stepped up and spoke out this morning in relation to the previous evening's upset. Here's what she had to say:

“I am woman, hear me roar!  We may have had a setback yesterday, but we are on the move. We haven't arrived yet at how we want our space to look and feel and function, but we're taking steps, we're in motion, so a big hooray for us!! And really, bringing in new energy and making a change is strong and creative. Leaving things as they are may be easy but it's also settling, surviving, getting by, going along. I want to thrive, go places, blossom, and soar in new ways I haven't even considered yet. And I need space and freedom to do it. I need light, not this heavy burdensome clutter that sits and sprawls and grows. Sorry, everyone--no I'm not really sorry. I needed to say this for all of us. I know I kind of hijacked the meeting, but last night we were feeling discouraged, and I wanted to turn that around so that we feel encouraged, energized, and empowered. So there.”

Pretty cool pep talk!

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